There are people who are comfortable in the limelight and even those who actually want to be the center of attention. Then there are those who are happier “behind the scenes” and don’t like to be noticed at all. Everyone has different personalities and backgrounds that contribute to the person you are today.
If you were given opportunities to be up front as a child, you are probably more comfortable in the spotlight as an adult. However, if you stayed in the background when you were little, you are quite likely more comfortable hugging the shadows. However, parents and even teachers may not be aware of the suffering kids go through who are “invisible.” These are the kids who receive more than their fair share of rejection through childhood. Perhaps they are made fun of because they are not physically attractive, they don’t wear the latest trends and styles, their parents aren’t wealthy, or they come to school smelling like an ashtray because their parents smoke. These children are the last to be chosen for a team project or sports because they are not that coordinated, or no one wanted to play with them. They sit alone at recess, lunch, and on the school bus because they are not part of the “popular” group.
But no matter how the world sees you, concentrate on who God sees!
When others saw Sarah as a barren woman, God saw the mother of all nations. When others saw David as a poor shepherd, God saw a mighty King. When Joseph’s brothers saw a spoiled brat who was their father’s favorite, God saw the governor of Egypt. If you’re struggling with self-image, feelings of being inadequate, or if you’re just plain shy, don’t forget that God created you to “be you.” He gave you talents to use for Him–not to hide. He wants you to “shine” for Him. No matter what others see, remember that God sees YOU and He has especially chosen you for greatness!
Exodus 4:10-12 NLT
10 But Moses pleaded with the Lord, “O Lord, I’m not very good with words. I never have been, and I’m not now, even though you have spoken to me. I get tongue-tied, and my words get tangled.”
11 Then the Lord asked Moses, “Who makes a person’s mouth? Who decides whether people speak or do not speak, hear or do not hear, see or do not see? Is it not I, the Lord? 12 Now go! I will be with you as you speak, and I will instruct you in what to say.”
Matthew 5:5 NLT
God blesses those who are humble, for they will inherit the whole earth.
1 Samuel 16:7 NIV
But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”
Isaiah 64:8 NLT
And yet, O Lord, you are our Father. We are the clay, and you are the potter. We all are formed by your hand.
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